...side of me says "why don't I..."
Why don't I ask them, no, tell them why they have to move down south to me and S? (I mean, think of the enormous employment opportunities for both of them, the number of schools for the kids, the closeness to me and S and our dreamt up future kids, imagine not having to care for the older generation, imagine that!)
Why don't I tell them S and I are moving to his family instead?
Why don't I?
Why don't I go to bed and get over it? Why don't I?
Well, why not.
Sleep well, seeya later.